Wednesday, March 1, 2017

Life is big

I have too many hobbies.

That is an odd critique to hold of oneself, but it's certainly valid.
I have an intrinsic curiosity about things that I am not at least remedially familiar with, and tend to bounce from one activity to the next with no real goal of any particular mastery.

This being the case, I have never found myself the type of person to have a "thing" or a natural proclivity to a particular skill set.  I suppose generalist would be an adequate descriptor., and I used to view this as a great negative.  The issue is that I have found myself surrounded by some of the most talented and intelligent people to walk this earth.  Many of my friends find themselves at the top of the collective when it comes to talents and pursuits.  They have the greatest intellect, discipline, empathy, dedication, strength, skill that I have come across respective to their individual gifts.
They have a "thing".
It is inspiring to witness, and on rare occasion outright intimidating.

As I have gotten older I have grown to understand and appreciate how big life is.  There are countless inspiring people that are involved in a million diverse and fascinating pursuits and pastimes.
That's a beautiful piece of life: we may never even be aware of something that gives another an enormous sense of fulfillment and purpose.  I think this is so cool, and almost regret that there is not more time to explore what drives and inspires other people. 

And so, perhaps that is my talent: curiosity and willingness to learn of new skills.
People have commented that they think I know how to do anything (this isn't true, but thanks)
Another good friend of mine who I have known for many years told me that I am the best he's ever seen at not getting bored and always having something to work on.
I consider this one of the greatest compliments you can give someone.

I love spending time learning all I can about something I know little about and sharing it with others.
What's encouraging is that I believe this will be something that I can pass along to my kids, and very much look forward to sharing in their interests.